Things change. Nothing can stop that. Life is a river that keeps flowing. We’re in a boat that cannot find the shore to pull out of the constantly passing scenery.
We are left with two options: Row with the current and enjoy the ride; Or fight the current and try hopelessly to keep the same scene in our sights for a while.
I try to be a row with the current guy. I try to find the joy in every circumstance. There are certain things I wish I wasn’t losing sight of. But who knows, this river twists and turns on itself a lot. Maybe I will get to see those certain sights, I long for, from an even better angle a little further downstream.
In the meantime I am keeping myself really busy. I’ve decided to help change along by making where I am the best I can make it. Now that’s different from making it the best it can be. Others, I am sure, could do more with what is before me. But with what I have inside of me I am making my best.
In February I planted tomatoes and peppers. Muddy said it was too early.
“What does she know” I said to myself.
Apparently she knows more than me. The tomatoes have gotten a little out of hand. I can no
longer put my bedroom shades down! Good thing I live at the back of the house.
Note to self: When helping change along always take your mother’s suggestions into consideration.
I got tired of waiting for the peppers. So I stuck some butternut squash seeds in the pots. That was the week the peppers started growing. Second note to self: When helping change along don’t rush others who don’t move at the speed you would like. You will be sorry!
In March I decided it was time to cut down the dead and tangled brush from the side lot. I took two days off to cut down this
In planning to remove the forest I forgot there were trees in it. Trees are big. Chopping’s hard. I’m fat. Third note to self: When helping a big change along, don’t try to do it all in a day…little steps man…little steps!
So I figured out I needed more time and I have taken the forest in stages.
I raked it clean another day.
Then I brought in the trellis.
This probably wouldn’t have taken a whole day if I had actually planned in advance what I was going to do and shared my “infinite wisdom” with the owner of the house.
Fourth note to self : When helping change along, don’t bring big black garden ornaments and slap them in the middle of the lawn willy-nilly without a plan. It makes others nervous.
Once we made the plan the rest went pretty smoothly. I won’t be chopping down anymore forest this year. The tomatoes are getting too tall and my body needs some time to recover from all this hard work. Fifth note to self: Before helping change along buy stock in Advil.
How are you helping change along this year?